Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
Romans 12:17-18, The New International Version

As Paul finishes out his final thoughts on relationships, he gives us some straight talk about handling things when we get hurt by others. He keeps it simple, "Do not... repay anyone..evil for evil." No matter how hurt we are, we must not try to get repayment of the debt by hurting others.

He begins to amplify this statement by telling us to be careful. We are to be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. First, this is in the eyes of God. Second, it is in the eyes of others. Third, it is in our own eyes. As forgiven children, we always hold, forgiveness, mercy, and blessing for others.

He then takes it one more level. "If it is possible...as far as it depends on you...live at peace with all men." The peace that we long for in all of our relationships is largely dependent upon our actions. Will we be Christlike or will we allow our flesh to direct our heart? Living at peace with all people is a choice we make.

There will be times when we get hurt and more times that people will not acknowledge the pain they inflict upon us. Of course, we will address it if it’s possible, but we are instructed to not allow it to heap up. Instead, we can set our debtors free. This is what Jesus did for us.

Let's make sure that we bless the Lord by extending His blessing, mercy, and grace to the other sinners in the world. That will keep us and other sinners humbly thankful for the way he has forgiven us too.

Have a wonderful day.

Love, Pastor Stuart